Love making is a dance in sweetness with another, not in violence with another. But you cannot suppress your violence, meaning the anger that you hold in your body, the rage that you have, the sadness that you have. You cannot repress that, and think that you’re going to have this beautiful divine connection.
You have to clear that. You have to heal that. You have to come back to your natural state. And in your naturalness, you come back to that childlike purity of sweetness, of friendliness, of kindness, of patience, of appreciation, of adoration.
We are so drawn to lovemaking. Why? Because we as humans, the only thing we really care about really is to love and be loved.